Why Do Men Over 40 Throw Shade at Women Over 40 Online? Hint: It’s Really About Them

Published on 15 December 2024 at 21:20

Why do some men over 40 criticize women over 40 online, especially when they're secretly into us? This has always been a little perplexing for me, so I just had to delve into this strange phenomenon. Ah, the mysteries of what goes in their minds! Let's crack the code, shall we? By the way, my biggest audience are actually men over 40. 


The Online Shade Parade

 

You’re confidently rocking your fabulous 40s, child-free, and loving life. You post a pic or share an opinion online, and suddenly—boom! Some man-child over 40 pops up to drop a snide remark about your looks, lifestyle, or "desirability." What’s the deal? Is it a poorly disguised crush or just a bad habit?

Spoiler alert: It’s usually both.

1. Insecurities Disguised as Opinions

He sees a woman living her best life, and instead of applauding, his own insecurities bubble to the surface. Maybe he's grappling with his own aging, loneliness, or missed opportunities. Instead of dealing with that, he types out, “You’re too old for that outfit.” Sir, you're too old for that attitude.

2. Fear of Irrelevance

Some men over 40 feel sidelined in the dating game. When they see a confident, independent woman over 40 thriving, it threatens their outdated notion that youth equals value. His snarky comment? A misguided attempt to cling to relevance. Nice try, buddy.

3. Old-School Flirting Techniques Gone Wrong

Believe it or not, some men still think that criticizing a woman makes them appear intriguing or aloof. This is like trying to start a campfire with wet spaghetti—confusing, ineffective, and honestly, sad.

4. The Anonymity Advantage

Online, these guys have the safety of a screen and a keyboard. They feel bold enough to say things they wouldn’t dare mutter in person. It's digital courage fueled by offline cowardice.


So, What’s the Solution?

 

 

You can’t control their behavior, but you can control how you respond:

  • Laugh at the Absurdity: “Oh, did I ask for your opinion? Must’ve missed that memo.”
  • Hit the Block Button: Because life’s too short for bad vibes and insecure trolls.
  • Own Your Confidence: Their criticism says more about their lack of self-worth than your desirability.

Remember: You’re not just surviving your 40s—you’re thriving. And no insecure comment can change that.


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